The healing power of whining

I had to do the thing to realize I didn't know how to do that thing.

WRITING A BOOK IS HARD.

Writing a whole book feels like spinning plates while herding cats and steering the river. It feels like trying to stop time and like every other exhausting trope that signals futile effort. But the book has been my big thing lately, so I've let myself be pulled into its gravitational orbit. And I'm kind of mad about it.

First of …